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Boys

Boys! I love boys. Don’t get me wrong, I love girls too. Especially little girls. They’re so cute… but this is about B-O-Y-S. 

I was always crazy about boys when I was growing up. Of course, I had two, younger, stinky brothers, Steve and Jason, and no sisters growing up, so that might have something to do with it. But I doubt it. 

My best friend when I was little, whom I hung out with, rode bicycles with, and fought like cats and dogs with was a boy. Chris. We’ve been friends now for “forty-something” years and he still tells people, “She is my oldest and best long-time friend.” It’s pretty special to have a friend that long, who thinks that way of you. Such a blessing

Me, with MY “boy”

One of my greatest blessings though, is my best-good-friend-ever-in-this-world, who also happens to be a boy, who grew into a man! Well, after thirty years of marriage, I think it’s safe to say that at times he’s STILL a boy! But I love him. My husband, D.A. 

I had two little girls who were precious as they could be. 

Rachel & Katie getting to visit their new brother, Logan


And then… we had a BOY. I had no earthly idea how sweet, cuddly, and just down right lovable this little boy could be. But he was! He’s now twenty-two and married, but he is still my baby BOY. And he’s still sweet, cuddly, and just down right lovable! Don’t let him kid you.

Logan giving his Superhero pose


Our girls grew up and married BOYS, so we also have Sons-in-law now, too. Which is okay by me. 

Our oldest girl, Rachel, with her boys, Jake and Abraham

Our middle daughter, Katie with her “boy” Brett



Logan with his “girl” Rhiannon



But even though the boys in my life have been fun, playful, irritating, mean at times, tried my patience, and got me into all kinds of trouble, none of them have compared to the boys who have come into my life in the last seven years. I’m talking about my GRAND-BOYS!

I’m sure grand-girls are precious and those of you who have girls will tell me so. But for now, until I get a grand-girl, I’m gonna brag on my grand-boys! 

First, there is Radley. He just turned seven, which means he is going to start second grade in a couple of weeks. Yikes! I do not know where the time went with him. Then again, I don’t know where the time went with his mommy, either! Because I distinctly remember dressing her all up and taking her to her first day of second grade! *sigh*

Radley, my little sweetheart


Radley is my little sweetheart. He loves to stay all night with Nonney and Paw Paw, ride the tractor, which he clearly states he can now drive! He also loves to ride on Paw Paw’s motorcycle and go around curves. 

Can you tell Radley loves the motorcycle?


He looks so cute with his little helmet and goggles on! I think someday he will be riding his own motorcycle. Maybe. If we can ever get him to ride on his own two wheels! Hmm… maybe a trike would be in order. Radley belongs to our Number Two daughter, Katie, and her husband Brett.

Abraham sitting on Nonney’s bike. He’s not too sure.

Then there is Abraham (Abe). Abe is almost two, and he is one little funny man! He is my Peep-Eye. When he was born, he looked at me with one eye opened, hence the Peep-Eye. 

Abe, stealing Nonney’s chair.

Abe lives just next door to Nonney and Paw Paw, and he loves to “run away” from home every chance he gets to go “out wide.” He loves Thomas the Train, but I think he also loves coming to our house just as much. Especially if he can get in my bed and lay on Paw Paw’s “pibbo.” But I think Abe loves his “Yaddey” even more!

Nonney’s Boys




Boys. I love ’em! Whether they’re big or small, I realized that I am extremely blessed with an abundance of boys. It’s not an accident by any means.


I know in my heart that this is all orchestrated by God. It is His design that I am surrounded by boys. Boys who will all grow up to be men. Men who will serve God. Men who will lead their families to serve God. It’s all about HIM anyway.

Boys. A great idea, I think.

My “boy” and me…and ALL our boys and girls (even the dogs)!

Shelley Wilburn
 

Shelley Wilburn has been writing since the age of twelve. She loves stories and adventures, and often finds herself getting into mischief with any one of her six grandchildren. She has written several articles and devotionals over the years for various newspapers, women's magazines, and newsletters. She has also co-authored devotionals. Shelley began writing full-time in 2012 after being healed of over 40 years of depression and anxiety. Using her love of writing, and wearing mismatched socks, Shelley has developed a unique ministry of encouraging others using biblical truths and stories from her own personal life. When not writing, you can find Shelley and her husband of over 30 years, D.A. zipping down the road in their newest adventure-maker, a bright orange, Mustang convertible Shelley has laughingly dubbed The Pony.

  • You have such a beautiful happy family!

  • Great family! I've got three grandsons and my first granddaughter will be here at the end of October. Can't wait!

  • Thank you! I'm pretty proud of them.

  • Congrats on your grand-girl! That will be a big change after all those boys, I'm sure! 😉

  • Joanne Sher says:

    Oh, they're ALL so precious. Love my boys too! 🙂

  • Thank you, Joanne! I never knew how precious boys could be… but I had an idea. ;-]

  • Karla Akins says:

    I raised four boys and one girl. I have five granddaughters. Boys are so precious and special. I love having boys!

  • Beautiful family pictures! What treasures.

  • Karla, FOUR BOYS? I'll bet your one girl didn't know what to do with herself.

    Karen… thank you. They are ALL treasures. Even the girls. ;-]

  • As a grandmother of three wonderful boys/grandsons, you're talking my language! We raised two wonderful daughters and loved all the girlie things, but grandsons can rock your world like nobody else – and in a great way! Fun post and I love the wonderful pictures!

  • Susan Craft says:

    I have one boy and one girl (they are 32 and 37 now) and I have to say the boy was the easier of the two when growing up. He played football and was so tired all the time, he didn't have the energy to get into trouble. 🙂 They didn't get along at first, but have been best friends for years. Loved this post, Shelley.

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